Ano bang love language niyo? Words of affirmation kasi ako
Bakit nga ba sa limang love languages, words of affirmation yung napunta sakin? Simula dati palang, I love writing for my friends. Gusto ko rin yung makakareceive ako ng letters from them. Pero ang weird lang kasi kapag sa mismong parents ko nanggagaling, hindi ko alam yung mararamdaman ko. Naiilang ako, na hindi ko maintindihan.
Words of affirmation girlie ako, sobrang daldal ko kapag magsusulat ng letter, pero as an introvert person, ang tahimik ko unless kakausapin ako. Pili lang yung pagiging maingay ko. Depende pa sa situation. Depende rin sa topic. Maybe that's the reason why my circle of friends are so small.
Going back from the topic, gusto kong maramdaman ng ibang tao yung pagmamahal ko sa kanila through words. Alam niyo yun, I also like acts of service kaso I have this mindset na paano nila malalaman kung hindi ko sasabihin?
They said na actions speaks louder than words, but for me, actions without words is somehow... confusing. Kaya when someone is being nice to me, I always think of it as something na maybe, they are just naturally nice. Sa lahat ng tao, mabait talaga sila.
Hmm, siguro kaya rin masyadong malala yung trust issues ko, and overthinking thoughts. Kasi I need words, reassurance.
Saan nga ba papunta itong topic? Basta umiikot lang sa pagiging words of affirmation ko. Gets ko naman na different people, different personalities. Pero minsan napapatanong din ako sa sarili ko, kailangan ba talagang pumili ng love languages? Hindi ba pwedeng i-try na gawin lahat?
Maybe I'm too naive to experience romantic love, it's not my time yet so I won't rush things, I won't pressure myself, I won't question God's plan for me, kasi alam kong hindi pa talaga ito yung right time. Halatang-halata naman na marami pa akong kailangan baguhin at i-improve sa sarili ko, at once na mangyari lahat yun...
hinding-hindi ko na ulit hahayaang mawasak ang puso ko... :)
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